Having Family Everywhere I Go

“But our citizenship is in heaven, and from it we await a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ.”

Philippians 3:20

One would think that with so many Christian denominations in existence, the central beliefs held by each group would differ astronomically. It’s the most uncanny thing, however, that even when setting foot in an entirely different country Christians find kindred spirits. There’s something electric about worshiping with a congregation of another culture. There’s a miraculous understanding which transcends language.

When I first met my husband, there was an inexplicable chemistry between us. How is it that two people who grew up in cultures as different from one another as night and day could feel as though their souls were cut from the same fabric? How is it that we share the same values, even though they differ from those around us? My husband’s parents love me and encouraged our relationship because of our mutual relationship with Jesus.

“Why do you want to marry me?” Amith once asked.

I answered, “Because your spirit understands mine.”

Culturally, my husband and I have more in common than not because of our citizenship in heaven, whatever citizenship we may hold on earth. Problems arise when either of us adheres to the world’s culture rather than our true citizenship.

An Indian lady once asked me if I struggled with the way my husband prioritized his mother over me. I explained to her that we’re both Christians, and the Bible says to prioritize one’s spouse. She was surprised and impressed by this information.

When problems arise, there’s always the same God we can look up to and ask for help. When I meet a brother or sister who only speaks a different language than me, we have the same Bible, the same message, and that gives us understanding. I’m thankful to God for the connections He gives us as His children.

“So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God,”

Ephesians 2:19